Complete development of a child is possible only when teachers and parents work as a team. However, now and then, even a good teacher will find some parents giving you a difficult time. It could be because they have a personality diagonally opposite to yours or because they are difficult. Anyway, we as teachers are expected to deal with them pleasantly. After all, we are a team! We cannot afford to ruin this parent-teacher relationship because of a few misunderstandings or miscommunications. If you are in the same boat as many other good teachers, with regards to this issue, here are our 5 tips for you to deal with difficult parents.
You can maintain a diary of your observations and use them as starting points for parental involvement. Evernote, Microsoft Note, or flex are some apps that you can use to make quick notes anytime. This way, the parent will know that you have a keen eye on their child and will appreciate your help. Further, the parent will not feel that you are there just to complain about the child.
For such types of parents, it is always better to set your boundary from the very beginning for teachers to parents and parents to teacher communication. Communicate your available timing to them in your very first mail or meeting. Further, let them know that they can expect your reply only during work hours. This will keep you sane by having some thinking time to reply to difficult emails.
Have someone with you during the conversation. Having proof of all your communication will help you save from any nuisance or trouble, the parent may put you into. However, keep in mind that when you are using technology to keep a proof goes both ways. Be extremely careful and clear about what you are communicating with them.
The parent involvement will help you understand the child better and maybe with a little adjustment, you can help the child better. This will also help you grow as a teacher. Further, who knows, maybe you will discover some new tips which ultimately will help you erase some gray areas of your teaching.
In such cases, it is better to let go for the sake of your peace of mind. You cannot change people. However, it is in your hands to be polite and modest. You can thus influence them by showing them how to be kind and considerate. Beyond that, it’s best not to let their behavior or words affect you.
Learning how to deal with difficult parents is something that teachers learn on duty. No teacher education or training textbooks can help you do so. If it is of help, know that all teachers come across such parents during their teaching life. And, everyone has their way of dealing with such situations. Talk to your fellow teachers to understand their tips as well. With a little help and a little wisdom, you can forge a very good parent-teacher relationship with your student’s parents. After all, your goals are common.
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